People always assume that all gay men, do the same thing. These are both yahoo groups,looking into them may answer some questions. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** web addresses not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use Most of all, all gay guys do not have anal intercourse. This was a straight guy, who was concerned about a fellow employee. A Bellman, nice blonde,well built guy, ask me why I didn't go to the gym work out and get in better shape to defend myself.
My first job, everyone knew I was, but nothing was said. He may be as scared as you to act on feelings. Sometimes relationships aeren't always what we think they are.If you get to know this guy to the point of good friends, sit down and talk to him about you think, but would never act on.
Gay men work in everykind of job, they just keep their personal lifes personal.Sometimes when you spend time with someone, you have a closer friendship than most.Watch a movie called BIG EDEN, it involves 2 best friends,one who was in love with the other, but his friend loved him. So when you think of likeing guys don't think that firemen&Policemen, business men,Dr.'s or construction workers aren't gay. People think that is what gay people are. The media puts out drag queens,leather guys, and effeminate twinks. Ialways like straight bars, with live bands and a relaxed atmosphere. Gay guys are not attracted to any man,just like straight guys prefer certain girls until it comes to closing time. Is there something different about him from the other guys. Incidentally, if he rejects your advancement (and not particularly fond of homosexuals), it could make your time spent with him progressively more awkward and difficult.Īre you better friends with this person? Do you go out with all your roomates or just him. As for what to do with your roommate, I would recommend not acting on someone so close.
You may never lose your attraction to both genders. Perhaps experimentation would be the right way to sort out your feelings, and you should decide if you want to be gay, straight or bisexual even. It's clear from your post that you have feelings for both males and females at this point. Your desire to kiss may be that you honestly simply want a physically intimate relationship and the idea arouses you, but makes you feel most comfortable to think about such with someone you already feel acquainted with. However, your attraction to people may be because you are attracted ti the personality and seek companionship in general. Even at your age, young adults still often find themselves a bit confused. There's absolutely nothing wrong with the feelings you are having. I could very well be wrong with my response in its wording, but I'll give it a shot anyways. (Ideally I would like my life to be either gay or straight because the way I'm operating now prevents anything from happening.) The advice I am searching for is what to do with my feelings for my room mate (we have year of living to go). There has only really been 2 girls that I have had the admiration for that is equal to the admiration I have had for some men and both of those lady friends of mine did not love me they way I loved them. Furthermore, i have many gay friends and i am not interested in the gay life/society, or rather, I prefer the life of a straight man.
I'm just turning twenty and it seems as though many people have a clear cut idea of what they like at an earlier age (it's either guys dig chicks and know how to advance physically/socially or they like dudes and know how to advance physically/socially out of instincts.) I, however, have hardly ever felt confident or right with women. I tend to be attracted to men's personalities however women's body's. I have considered myself straight, but I do admit I have had thoughts about some guys I've known since an early age. Let's draw a truce for the next few paragraphs and see what we might learn about one another.Here's the thing, I have three straight male room-mates and I want to kiss one of them.
I'm not here to make you feel small, even though a fair share of you seem to think that's your inalienable right to make gay men feel less than.
That being said, let's roar full steam ahead (no pun intended) and discover why gay men's "jingle balls" rule! Straight guys don't get offended or feel threatened by this topic. Although there are some fab little gems in it (boy did I just flame or what!) If you take offense to anything I say, just remember this article doesn't have to become your truth.I am pleading the Fifth Amendment and refusing to discuss the rights, wrongs, and in the middles of gay rights or biblical views on homosexuality.If you're looking for a thesis exploring the proportional differences of the male penis in gay men vs.Before we launch into this diatribe of "Who has bigger jingle balls, gay or straight men?" let me first set the record straight.